Raise your voice…

There is good and bad everywhere in the world…

You can either choose to celebrate the good around.

Or you can sulk with all the bad things around.

What do you choose?

There is encouragement and criticism everywhere in the world…

You can either choose to encourage goodness.

Or keep criticizing all the negatives.

What do you choose?

There is peace and war everywhere in the world…

You can either choose peace or war.

What do you choose?

There is love and hate everywhere in the world…

You can either chose love or hate.

What do you choose?

Choose wisely…Live Peacefully, Celebrate Life, Spread Love .

And Yes, definitely rage a war against all the hate and bad things!

Shall we?

YES or NO

Settling Aboard….?

This Idea has always been a big no for me…

But after my marriage and kid…And my husband’s desire to settle in a developed nation…

I now think and question myself each day Should I or NOT?

True...Infrastructure is Amazing, Food and Air Quality Very Good, Good Law and Order System, Almost No Corruption & People around have basic common sense towards each other…

Everything is very Ideal… In fact PERFECT!  So why not settle down here?

BUT BUT BUT I still crave for my city, my extended family & friends back in my motherland…

I still crave for the crazy world, the haphazard streets, the street food, the randomness, the festivities !!!

There is definitely something beautiful about NOT being PERFECT… There is rawness in life…

It makes one want to improve things around and hope things get better with each passing year…

Where things are already perfect you lose sense of accomplishment?

At times I so miss my city and people who mattered…  *teary eyed*

I guess I need to develop a new hobby instead of debating over this? May be…

Free Falling...

Dedicated to all my married friends (especially with kids!!!)

Falling in love is definitely the most euphoric feeling one can experience…

The world around you becomes a brighter place suddenly…

You smile at yourself… at strangers… at simple things…

You enjoy sunshine, sunset, rain and everything!

So let’s pause once in while………………….. Let’s get euphoric and make this world a lovable place once again ( and again and again…)

PS: Yes, Today I am in love again :)

Love...???

Love…

There are all kinds of Love…
Love between Mother & Child…
Love between Siblings…
Love between Friends…
Love between Grandparents & Grandchildren…
Love for Nature, Pets, your Fav things!
And then LOVE between Man & Woman… Why is there so much expectation and hurt here? Don’t you think this relationship deserves to be treated normally? Why so much hype & then disappointment?
Differences are there in every relationship mentioned above but we don’t give up on our parents, siblings, pets? Then why can’t we be tolerant to the differences between partners?
I have always believed in one partner for a lifetime concept! The old fashioned way… 
You don’t need to get in and out of relationships to find a perfect guy or girl!! There is no such thing as ‘PERFECT’ : )
Always focus on self-improvement , self-goals and just be there for your loved ones! Keep life simple…

Enjoy yourself while you are still alive… Be kind, Be Human !!!

Life sure is a Roller Coaster Ride...!

Today I was reading some inspirational quotes and got inspired to publish at least 'one' post this year... 

I have been on a crazy roller coaster ride in the past couple of years...marriage, pregnancy, child birth, phew! Stepped into additional roles of 'a wife' ,'a daughter-in-law' and most importantly 'a mother'...

Found the love of my life... <*Sweet talks*Kisses*Hugs*Dates*Silly Fights*Movies*Shopping*>
The Wedding Plan... <*Serious Talks*Excitement*Arrangements*Cold Feet*Commitments*Family Bonding*Honeymoon*>  
Post Wedding ... <*Nervous&Homesick*Setting up the New Home*Love*Laughter*Anger*Tears*Adjustments* Compromises*Fights*Silence*Juggling between work and household chores*> Hmmm did I do the right thing by getting married??? ;)
Pregnancy... <*Happyyy*Excited*Lil Nervous*Deeper Bonds*Food Cravings*Doctor Visits*Mood Swings*Temper Tantrums*>
Child Birth... <*Anxious*Pain*Trauma*Relieved*Happy & Blessed*Exhausted*>
Post Child Birth... <*Feeding*Diaper Change*Sleep Deprived*The first grin on your baby's face*Million Dollar Feeling*Motherhood*>


Phew...Survived the ride so far and looking forward to an exciting ride each year & hope with each passing turn I only get brave & wiser.

Signing off this year and ready to welcome a warm and beautiful new year!! Cheers to life!!

PS: Thank my 'family &friends' for all the support so far!!

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Few months back I wondered about the uncertainty in my life...I was searching for security, protection and love…
A hand that could hold me for the rest of my life…
A shoulder I could rest on at the end of the day…
Now, I wonder what hereafter??
As I keep probing the real purpose of life and the sheer existence of human life…
The blaze in my heart seems to fade at times…
Then I realize that your life is a reflection of your own thoughts…
And you need to reinvent your thoughts each time they tend to cast a shadow…
It is hope, passion and belief in oneself that keeps the blaze alive…

I ask the Lord almighty to help me keep the flame in my heart alive until it stops beating, Amen!

Current Mood: Pensive

27 Milestones

Today I cross another milestone and as I turn back and look: I have done it all ;)
Gone through ups and downs… Survived them all…
Been Dependent/ Independent , Carefree /Responsible , Fought/Loved…
Always stayed home, had the nicest friends, had fun, cried, laughed together!
Finished my grad, got a job, surprisingly did pretty well & still going...
Spent irrationally, Went Bankrupt!
Had few bitter experiences... which actually molded me & helped grow as a person...
Went away from home to explore new horizons...
Travelled cross countries... Went on beautiful road trips... Worked harder than ever...
Realized however far you travel ,see the world , make thousands of friends... you yearn to go back to people who are your own..


End of the day I have always stuck by my principles (mostly imbibed by my mother)... May be broken few rules here and there occasionally…